boyfriend, Jaiman, who will thankfully be making the move with me. Greenery also is a great description of what awaits us in our move - we will be going from the beautiful desert landscape I've grown to love, to a place of green lawns, evergreen and maple trees, and all sorts of other greenery. Money - perhaps the most sought-after proverbial green - will also be a key aspect of our transition; I will be getting paid more, he will need to find a new job, and we will need to watch that spending on our ambitious adventures and culinary conquests doesn't exceed our budget. Hopefully, we will find "greener pastures" in Connecticut, but there's no telling if our food porn will make our friends and family green with envy, or if we'll go green with homesickness.
Continuing down this analogy, Pantone suggests a number of palette combinations with names that are strangely fitting for the expected experiences of our year to come:
Transitions - both a job change for me and him, as well as a transition of lifestyleGrand Canyon - we will be exploring our great home state a little bit more before we leave
Rev It Up - our personal and professional lives will hopefully find new energy in 2017
Fathomless - there seems to be no end to our dreams and aspirations for our new life in New England
Deep Rooted - while we're leaving our family and friends behind, we will stay connected
Calm It Down - there will inevitably be moments of stress, and I know I will need to take a moment to catch my breath and relax
Indeed, I am impressed by how much this opportunity feels like a blank canvas, and while green is not commonly referred to as a neutral color, Pantone describes it as nature's neutral, a perfect backdrop to re-invent ourselves and our life. So without further ado, here are some things to look forward to and personal goals for 2017:
2017 Goals (Themes Inspired by Pantone's palettes)
Transitions - Get down to a size 12
While I often avoid making weight-loss goals because they are hard to adhere to and obtain, I think I've reached a point where I am ready to make some serious changes, and that means committing to an achievable goal again.
Ethereal Material - Cook one new dish
Most of you know that I am not exactly a master in the kitchen, but I do experiment and come up with something amazing from time to time. Encouraged by my hit chorizo tacos at the cabin for Christmas, I definitely am ready to expand my cooking vocabulary. Suggestions welcome, just keep in mind that ease isn't actually a motivating factor for me, I want a dish that is AMAZING that I can't get elsewhere, that will motivate me to work on it.
I've conquered (and occasionally felt defeated) by some of the most amazing hikes in the world, right here in Arizona. Before moving out of the southwest, I'd like to try one more awesome hike that I've not yet tackled. I think we'll also need to do a hike or two in the northeast, but I don't expect that to be the on the same level. Again, suggestions welcome!
Forest Floor - Grow something
Cactus have been known to die at my hand. But I've come to find that, coupled with my experimentations in the kitchen, the herbs and veggies I use often go bad before I use them all up. I'm not sure how well it will go to grow my own, but I'd like to at least try to grow something like mint, peppers or lettuce so it can be used in my recipes.
Rev It Up - Complete a college course (online or otherwise)
This category could have gone a few different ways for me - I was initially thinking about all the roller coasters we expect to do next year. But I think, dating Jaiman, roller coasters are inevitable and also aren't actually all that important to me. But as I was thinking about the future, I realized that it's been a while since I've done something for my professional development, so I thought, even if I don't pursue a certification of some sort, I should at least study something. I've watched a lot of TED Talks over the last couple years, but even as thought-provoking as they are, I find them rarely to be actionable. And there are so many options for actual college courses readily available and free online, I think it's a no-brainer to improve myself in this way.
Fathomless - Make something unique & innovative
I'm leaving this intentionally very open-ended. In years past, I've done some (I think) extraordinary things with my home, and for a while I had serious interior design ambitions. But while I never did make it onto HGTV's Design Star, I think there is still room for me to do something really cool, and with a move to a whole new home, I can't think of a better way to break in the new space than by putting my own unique flare into it.
Calm It Down - Read 20 books
I had set out to read 20 books this year, and completed 25 (and started a couple more). So I had thought about raising the bar for next year, but settled on 20 again because of all the changes and other things that are going to come next year. Also, I found that while I was doing all this reading in 2016, I was consumed by consuming words, rather than producing them, and I believe my writing suffered as a result. So not only do I not want to not stretch myself given all the other activity, but I think I will probably also limit myself to 20 books, and focus more on the experiences to be had and writing to be done.
Analogous - Write a novel/book
I've had some little ideas circulating in my head for a while, and I love the idea of nanowrimo, even though I didn't participate this year. So I think for 2017, I not only want to participate in nanowrimo again, but I want to work a bit more on my writing again. I may even combine this with the class thing and take a writing course of some sort.
Moody Blooms - Learn a new style of dance
I love dance, and I can always use more exercise. In the distant and recent past, I've taken classes in modern jazz, ballet, east coast swing, hip hop, pole, tribal belly dance, lindy, and balboa. Of these, I'd say I was most terrible at hip hop, so I may consider a return to that style still as being new. Or, maybe I will have Jaiman teach me his favorite ballroom style, or maybe a Latin style dance - I do like shaking my booty! Regardless of the style, the point is to move and enjoy it!
Deep Rooted - Host a game night or get-together
An extreme extrovert, I just can't get enough of being around people whom I enjoy. I think this is one of the aspects of moving that scares me most - I will once again be far away from my family and friends, and will only have a few people I know in the new world. So whether it's before or after the move, I definitely want to push myself to host something that brings me closer to the people I enjoy at least once, if not 300 times over!
Feb 27 - Hiking "the Wave"
Mar 4 - A friend's wedding
Mar 18 - 19 - Going to my first NASCAR race
Spring(?) - Road trip up PCH to San Francisco (tentative)
Spring/summer - Househunting trip to Connecticut
August(?) - Move from Mesa, AZ to Stamford, CT area
Late summer/fall - Six Flags trips on the east coast!
Sept - Travel to Australia (tentative)
Jan 1 - Brooklyn Nine-Nine one-hour winter finale (8:30 pm on Fox)
Jan 4 - People's Choice Awards (9pm on CBS)
Jan 6 - Hidden Figures (theaters)
Jan 8 - Golden Globe Awards
Jan 10 - This Is Us midseason premiere (9 pm on NBC)
Jan 13 - Lemony Snicket's A Series of Unfortunate Events (Netflix)
Jan 19 - Scandal (9pm on ABC)
Jan 22 - Critics Choice Movie Awards
Jan 25 - The Path (Hulu)
Jan 29 - Screen Actors Guild Awards
Feb 5 - Super Bowl LI (5pm on Fox)
Feb 3 - The Space Between Us (theaters)
Feb 26 - The Oscars
Mar 22 - Empire spring premiere (9pm on Fox)
Apr 14 - Fast & Furious 8: The Fate of the Furious (theaters)
Apr 21 - The Amazing Race (8pm on CBS)
May 5 - Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 2
May 26 - Pirates of the Caribbean: Dead Men Tell No Tales (theaters)
June 11 - Tony Awards
June 25 - BET Awards
Sept 17 - Emmy Awards
Dec 22 - Pitch Perfect 3 (theaters)
Your Goals for 2017
I think goal setting is an important practice, even if you don't end up achieving your goals in the time allotted, or if your priorities change. It helps us to think about what it is we need to accomplish, how we can do it, who we need, and what things we need to do to prepare. It pushes us to be better people, to strive for the legacy we want to leave behind, and it gives us concrete things to measure ourselves against. So often, I get this feeling of being stuck in purgatory, passing time until something exciting happens. But the truth is, life is good, and every day can be awesome, and if I'm working towards something, then I know I am moving forward, and therefore I'm not stuck. I strongly encourage you to use this template for your own goal setting for 2017, and I'd love to hear how you interpret these themes!
Transitions - Change is inevitable. What is one thing you want to change for the better?
Ethereal Material - Back to basics. What can you do to ground yourself?
Grand Canyon - Adventure is waiting! What is one thing you can do that will make it into your Christmas letter in 2017?
Forest Floor - Nature is the source of so much inspiration, not to mention food, shelter, water, etc. What is one thing you can do to feel connected to Mother Earth?
Rev It Up - Accelerate your life! What is something you want to accomplish that will push you out of your comfort zone?
Fathomless - The human mind is incredible! Even if you don't consider yourself creative, push yourself to create something. Take a class at TechShop, or a glass-blowing workshop, or one of those painting with wine classes. Or, just pick up a couple supplies at your local craft store and go to town!
Calm It Down - So few adults continue reading after school is over. Challenge yourself to read! Ask for suggestions. Look around at your library. Go to goodreads and see what your friends are reading, or list the books you've liked in the past to see what comes up as suggestions. Read the book before the movie comes out (I love doing this). If you still don't know what to read, check out my list of suggestions here.
Analogous - Just like reading, I think writing is such a critical part of our lives. Consider starting a journal (or blog!), experiment with short stories, write about something you know really well, or make up a parody to your favorite song.
Moody Blooms - Express yourself! I'd challenge you to take a dance class, but if that's too out there for you, consider learning a new language (I recommend Pimsleur audio CDs, you can get them from the library and they only take 30 minutes a day - do it on your commute), trying a new skill (scuba diving? archery?) or going to see a show or event you normally wouldn't (opera? college theater? museum exhibit? botanical gardens?).
Deep Rooted - At the end of the day, it all comes down to people. How can you connect or re-connect with the people you most admire?